Because we consider certain emotions and behaviors harmless, we don’t pay much attention to them. In fact, we regard some attitudes as so “normal” that we just assume everyone feels them from time to time. Yet, if we look beneath the surface, we’ll discover hidden danger and realize the situation is different from the way it appears. One good example is discouragement.
A lot of people view discouragement and disappointment as the same thing, but this is a misconception. Disappointment is an emotional response to a failed expectation, whereas discouragement is the spoiled fruit that results from unresolved disappointment.
Since we cannot experience perfect success every single time we try something, there’s no way to avoid all disappointments in life. However, we can avoid discouragement; it is a choice that we make when we decide whether or not we will allow our times of disappointment to destroy our confidence.
And that’s exactly what discouragement is—a complete lack of confidence, a feeling of dismay, and a loss of motivation regarding something that brings fulfillment and purpose. Think about the very word “discourage.” The prefix “dis-” means “without.” So, to be dis-couraged is to be without courage altogether.
Can you see how this is a tremendous problem for a Christian? The Bible calls us to be strong and courageous, trusting Jesus Christ for what we need. If you’re without this courage, the first thing you must do is ask God to wipe away your fears and remind you of His mighty power.
Try some courage today. Michael