“But a man who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys himself.” (v.32)
We have talked about chastity; let’s talk now about faithfulness. Chastity is purity prior to marriage; faithfulness is virtue within marriage. God wants everyone who enters into marriage to be loyal and true. When we say that God is love, we are also saying that God is faithful, because love cannot be love unless it has faithfulness in it. Marriage is a covenant. A lot of people say, “It’s just a piece of paper and fifteen minutes of someone’s time.”
But hold on a minute. If life is based on relationships, then the only ethical relationship is love, and love is faithfulness, then the marriage covenant is the most precious thing in life. The thing that constantly comes out in both Old and New Testaments is the covenant aspect of love. And when you study the covenants of Scripture you will find this – that God keeps His covenants even though they are broken from the other side. The relationship between Jehovah and Israel is often pictured as that of a husband and a wife. Israel becomes the wayward, unfaithful wife who commits adultery.
But God is still faithful to His covenant. God says, “I will never break my covenant. You can count on it. I am God.” Young people don’t want entangling relationships today. They want to be free to love. With all the conviction of my heart, I say to you that there is no such thing as “free love.” only free exploitation. Love is commitment and when men and women indulge in fornication or adultery, they have not just broken God’s laws; they have broken His heart.
O Father, in an age when anything goes, help me be an exhibition to the world around of what it means to be a follower of You. Help me keep all my relationships pure. For Your own dear Name’s sake. Amen.