The article addresses marriage struggles and the question of marrying the wrong person. The author emphasizes the importance of honesty, forgiveness, faith, community, seeking help, and staying committed. They stress the need for continuous growth and support from God and others to navigate challenges in marriage, offering hope and practical guidance.
Category Archives: Marriage
A Noble Woman
Proverbs 31:10, from the Book of Proverbs, reflects the societal, cultural, and faith contexts of ancient Israel. It praises a “wife of noble character” and highlights the value of inner qualities over material wealth. This aligns with biblical teachings on virtue and aligning with God’s will, impacting our worldview and ethical decisions.
When the Husband Is Bad Authority
When facing bad authority, Christians are called to show respect and patience, even when the authority is not obeying God’s word. This includes being supportive while also seeking to compel the gospel through conduct and forgiveness. However, if the situation involves abuse, seeking help and potentially separating could be necessary. Jonathan Leeman emphasizes handling bad authority with love and discernment.
Honorable Among All Men
The book of Hebrews closes with a sequence of instructions for Christian living. Hebrews 13:4 focuses on marriage: “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (Hebrews 13:4, NKJV). The significance of the phrase marriage is honorable among all is somewhat obscured in older Bible versions. InContinue reading “Honorable Among All Men”
Keep Your Promises
In these verses from Matthew’s Gospel, I, as if stepping into the shoes of Matthew himself, am sharing Jesus’ teachings on some profound and, in the context of our times, quite challenging subjects. This passage is part of what’s famously known as the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus is addressing a multitude with teachingsContinue reading “Keep Your Promises”
It’s a Fact, Jack!
A new Gallup survey has found that, over more than a decade, one variable has consistently predicted whether people described themselves as “thriving”: marriage. Married couples are more likely to be happy today, anticipate future happiness, and have a “strong and loving” relationship with their children than cohabiting partners are. Gallup sorted respondents into threeContinue reading “It’s a Fact, Jack!”
No Need to Fight Over Money
When my wife and I were young newlyweds, we tried to do the right things. We took financial classes at our church, and we attempted to talk about budgets and money at home. But, instead of bringing harmony and consensus, these talks seemed to devolve into arguments–or times of “spirited fellowship” as I’ve heard itContinue reading “No Need to Fight Over Money”
Marriage Is a Mess
Well, it’s true and it’s a glorious thing. The growing in holiness part doesn’t always seem blissful. But it means that God isn’t finished with you yet, either. The purpose and hope in marriage isn’t defined by you or your spouse, but by God. THE BRIDE & GROOM’S SINISTER MINISTER Let’s talk about weddings. I’mContinue reading “Marriage Is a Mess”
Don’t Waste Paternity Leave
Paternity leave benefits in the U.S. have increased, yet many men struggle with how to best utilize this time off. Factors like work culture, financial concerns, and differing advice from peers create confusion. Husbands are advised to consider their wives’ needs, bonding with their new child, and investing in their family’s spiritual growth when making this decision. Each couple should seek wisdom and prayerfully consider their unique situation.
Happiness Every Day
One evening, Rudy and I found ourselves standing before a gathering of married couples at one of our Marriage Practitioners seminars. In an audacious move, we dared to ask these couples to jot down five things their spouse could do today to make them happy. I know, right? It was scandalous. I mean, as believers,Continue reading “Happiness Every Day”
Intentional Faith 