You Can Never Please Some People

Too many Christians are too quick to judge and condemn. Evangelical and Bible-believing Christians know full well that Jesus saved his harshest words of condemnation for the religious leaders, especially the Pharisees.

They were not the good guys, in other words. Yet while evangelicals can rightly condemn the Pharisees of Jesus’ day, how many actually live and act like them today?

There would be many characteristics of the Pharisees, but certainly one general feature would be that of having a sense of religious superiority and looking down on others. The contemporary Pharisees are quick to judge and condemn others, just as the Pharisees of old were quick to judge and condemn Jesus and his disciples.

We see this so often, especially on the social media. A person either becomes a Christian, is thinking about becoming a Christian, or might be on the way to becoming a Christian, or says he is one – but of a somewhat different theological camp – and the evangelical Pharisees are out condemning them within minutes.

This grieves me deeply, as I am sure it grieves our Lord. Sure, the evangelicals doing this will say they are simply affirming sound doctrine and the like, but sadly that can be used to cover a multitude of sins. Claiming to stand up for solid biblical teaching, they too often are just acting fully like a Pharisee.

They sit in judgment on others as if they were God. They really act like judges, jury, and executioner. They show no grace, no patience, no mercy – they are out for the kill. All I can say is I am glad God did not treat me that way – especially when I was a new believer.

If these Pharisaic Christians were around then, and aware of my thoughts, words, and deeds as a believer during my first weeks, months and even years, most would be certain I was not a Christian. Thankfully I am ultimately answerable to God who knows all things, and not to these armchair critics.

At the end of the day ONLY God fully knows the human heart and fully knows those who are his. We do NOT. Sure, there are tests we can make use of, and we must be biblically discerning. For example:

-A lack of sound doctrine CAN indicate that a person is not truly saved.
-A lack of Christian love and grace CAN indicate that a person is not truly saved.

So yes, knowing the beliefs of a person and knowing the fruit of a person is part of how we assess others. But still, great care is needed here. We are just all far too quick to rush to judgment. As I say, most of these Pharisees would have condemned me back in my early days as a Christian.

But a brand-new believer is simply a babe in Christ. What intelligent and caring person would condemn a newborn baby because he cannot feed himself or dress himself or do much of anything? It is the same in the spiritual realm. Cut these people some slack for heaven’s sake!

When folks like Russell Brand came out a week ago saying he is now with God and getting baptized, plenty of these Pharisees and heresy hunters were so quick to spring into action, assuring us that he was NOT a Christian, he was a fake, and we should have nothing to do with the guy. Good grief!

Some of the most unloving and ungracious “Christians” I know of are the various heresy hunters and self-appointed guardians of the faith. They have decided they will determine who is saved and who is not. They will take God’s place and assure us of who we can fellowship with and who we must avoid.

You almost wonder if they would seek to institute a new inquisition against some of these new believers. Sure, genuine cultists who fully deny the deity of Christ and so on can and should be assessed by what they believe or do not believe. But a brand-new Christian is not in that place.

We had the same with Bishop Emmanuel who was attacked and blinded in one eye by a teenage jihadist. Because he is in a different camp than most of us – an Assyrian Orthodox believer – plenty of these heresy hunters were out in force, warning us to stay well clear of the guy and have nothing to do with him.

Well, I for one will ignore these Pharisees and keep praying for the Bishop. Sure, I do not agree with all of his beliefs either, but to condemn him to hell as a false prophet because of some of these differences is not something I am prepared to do.

Simply seeing the love and forgiveness he has offered to his attacker does tell me something about the sort of person he is. Yes, sound teaching matters, but so does sound living. In many regards he seems far more of a Christian than I am.

But none of us are perfect, none of us have it all together, none of us have inerrant doctrine, and none of us are in a place where we should sit in judgment on everyone else around us. Yes, we discern, we evaluate lifestyles, we evaluate what a person believes, but we do so carefully and graciously.

And the same goes for a third group of people also being hammered by the Pharisees. I refer to those who still seem to be on a spiritual journey. Someone like Jordan Peterson is a clear example. I have seen so many evangelicals dumping on him, saying we should stay away from him and avoid him like the plague.

But as I have said so often now, if he does not sound like a Christian, that is likely because he is not one yet. So why would we expect him to talk like a perfect 30-point (or whatever) evangelical? And as I also say so often, if these critics spent a fraction of the time praying for folks like Peterson as they do publicly attacking them we all would be in a much better place.

This goes for all these folks, be it Brand or Emmanuel or Peterson. How much are the armchair critics praying for these folks? Why do I suspect that many of these critics have not once prayed for them. How could they? They are far too busy condemning, denouncing, judging and attacking.

And much of this also falls back to the matter of co-belligerency. So many public figures and public intellectuals seem to be moving in the right direction. They are tired of where the secular world is at and are now looking at the God option. I stand with them in this.

As Russell Brand tweeted a week ago, “No one trusts the government. No one trusts the media. So why are we surprised that more and more of us are turning to God?” Now, does a generic ‘turning to God’ necessarily make one a Christian? No. Does being baptized necessarily make one a Christian? No. Does forgiving an assailant necessarily make one a Christian? No.

But instead of going on the attack in all these cases, I wish the Pharisees would actually get on their faces before the living God and pray something like this:

‘Dear Lord, I do not know if Brand is now really a born-again Christian or not. But I am thankful you seem to be working in his life, and he seems to be going in the right direction. Please help him fully become a child of yours if he is not already. And surround him with solid Christians to help disciple him and help him to grow in you.’

And again: ‘Dear Lord. I differ with the Bishop in many ways, in some beliefs and practices. But I also have quite a bit in common with him. And the genuine Christian love that I see emanating from him puts me to shame and makes me want to become much more Christlike in this regard. If you want him to change theologically in some areas, then make that clear to him. But in the meantime, bless him and keep him close to you.’

And again: ‘Dear Lord, I am not sure where Peterson is now at. I believe his wife and daughter may have become believers of late. I pray you will keep working in his life. You have used him in many ways to help so many people. It would be terrific if he did indeed become a real-deal Christian. So, keep working in his life Lord.’

Now for me this is not just theoretical. I have a daily prayer time, and all three have been on my list – some for quite a while now. I try to pray for people like this just as much as I publicly speak about them. I wish some of my evangelical friends would do the same.

Yes, I know: doctrine matters, and not everyone – be they a celebrity or not – is necessarily a Christian just because they say they are. But I am willing to cut these folks some slack, and maybe even give them the benefit of the doubt. No, I will not be gullible and throw out biblical discernment. But neither will I pretend I am God who can judge and condemn all those that happen to differ from me in various ways.

As I have also said before, there will be a lot of surprises in heaven. Some folks we were certain would not be there will be. And some folks we were certain would be there will not be. Moreover, it will not just be some evangelicals who will populate heaven. There will be some other Protestants, there will be some Catholics, there will be some Orthodox, and there will be some who have no clue which camp they are in.

Bill Muehlenberg

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